Sacred Union: Breaking the Glass Ceiling

The recipe for divine union

1- first and foremost it must include 2 people who are whole unto themselves. 2 people who have already created their own heaven on earth within and without- that are not seeking anything outside of themselves to fill a void. They have seen the beauty within and know that whoever gets to be in their energetic field must be a joyful, stable, contribution to that energy. They’ve healed their inner child wounds, hold strong boundaries, and are impeccable with their word- including the ability to ask for what they truly desire with no filter- knowing that their desires are coming from a pure heartfelt exploration of pleasure and love.

2- Someone who knows what they want and can allow themselves to receive what they want! they’ve gotten to understand themselves on such a deep level that they know what lights them up and what brings stability into their lives. And even bigger- is someone who knows they deserve exactly what they want. They’ve healed the shame around “being too much” or asking for too much- as well as cleared any blocks around receiving. They’ve made their own joy and pleasure a priority.

3- Someone who understands and knows how to live a life of Devotion! Devotion is the continuously choosing to pour ones energy into that which truly matters in ones life, even when it is confronting! Or ESPECIALLY when it’s confronting. Devotion is that ooey gooey goodness that differentiates a marriage(a government contract) from a Sacred Holy Walk through the uncertainty of life.

4-Respect- You may be in union but you are 2 separate souls- coming from vastly different journeys and perspectives. The not seeing eye to eye every time is just an opportunity to see past the veil of separateness or conflict- to see an opportunity to understand each other better and stay embodied in the higher expression of your love.

5- Relating from a place of true honesty- This means not dating for potential- this means looking at the person before you and seeing them exactly as they are and not as you hope they will be.

6- Patience and care- imagine taking your time getting to know each other, moving into the next phase with intention and curiosity- releasing attachment but holding gratitude for each step, remembering that there is no end point to the journey, just a continuous creating together what you want love to look and feel like with your heartfelt presence. I see it like this- I am 2.5 years celibate and I have friends joke with me and say things like that my standards are too high if I want to “have sex” - my response is- I don’t want to have sex- I want to meet god. Any man can fuck my brains out- but only a real embodied masculine king can stimulate my mind, caress my heart into deeper states of safety and knowing, patiently getting to know every inch of my body, serenade me with his truth, and lift me into higher states of consciousness with his presence. You get the picture;) Meeting God is a multidimensional experience and there are no shortcuts. It takes time to integrate 2 whole humans into a coherent union. Devoting oneself to enjoying the ride is a necessary requirement.

7- Having connected with the infinite well of love that one has to give and knowing that this well never runs dry when being poured into that which truly matters.

8- The commitment to supporting your partner in being the most authentic version of themselves as they continue to evolve.

Wounds that must be healed in order to step into sacred union :

• Savior energy - either a desire to be saved or to find value by saving another- whether it be financially or emotionally.

• Validation seeking/self worth- requiring someone else to validate your worth.

• Purpose driven attachment- A relationship with another is not our souls purpose- our souls purpose is our relationship to our authentic self first and foremost- and from that place often an external purpose is born, usually in the form of sharing one’s authentic expression in some way. But making a romantic relationship one’s purpose creates a weight that a romantic relationship cannot bear.

• People Pleasing/Boundaries- having the ability to put your needs first so that when you do give to another its coming from the heart instead of fear is the only way to relate authentically.

• Healed the receiving wound- many people have been conditioned to believe that fully receiving love and pleasure is selfish- but the truth is when someone fully receives all the goodness life has to offer- they radiate positive energy and give permission to others to do the same.

• Pedestaling/competition/jealousy- You are an equally amazing and unique being. It is vital to be able to see and support the beauty in another without it making you less than

These are just a few- and the truth is each individual is so unique and the way to healing each of these things is far and wide depending on the root from which they came to be in your life.

This message is not to say that some of these things are healed within romantic relationship- many people have had the opportunity to become whole within a relationship and by doing this the relationship becomes stronger. It is not always that we must be healed in order to enter relationship- but what ive found to be quite common over the last few years is that many women have been decentralizing men from their lives, begun exploring conscious celibacy, and focusing on doing their healing work + building their queendoms through sharing their souls medicine- which has left them in a space of unwillingness to be in the energy field of men who have not done the same depth of inner work.

As I write this I feel a sense of righteousness  could be perceived in these words- but I assure you that what my own inner work has led me to is the utmost respect for the masculine and the injustice that the patriarchal systems have done to their ability to connect with their true self. For years we’ve talked about how women have been wronged by the patriarchy- which allowed a certain amount of stamina, support, and awareness that has allowed the queens to rise- but the men… the truth about what was taken from them when the patriarchy ripped the systems of the essence of the matriarch, the medicine woman, and the priestess - has been less spoken about. Men are innately reverent to the feminine. Their souls were designed this way. They deeply desire to protect, provide, and lead the feminine- in many ways it is the masculines purpose! Getting to see the feminine in her full power, full pleasure, and full sovereignty is what gets a man off more than anything! Instead men have been put on the hamster wheel of life- being fed false masculinity that looks like objectifying the feminine, overzealous libidos, performative energy, and lack of positive role models. All of this is coming from a fear of actually giving all of himself to a woman - because  the patriarchy is built on fear of the power of the feminine instead of reverence.

Ultimately Im sharing this because I feel that we are moving into a new paradigm where what we once thought wasn’t possible- IS- and one of the ways for that to happen is for us to make choices in that direction. So where we’ve been taught that sacred union requires a lot of compromise - I want people to start imagining a future where relationships are more balanced, where its less about choosing a partner and more about knowing deep in your bones that you’re intended to walk into your next chapter with this person, where we no longer ignore red flags and settle just to be in relationship, and knowing that doing these things will lead you to that fairy tale type of love that we’ve been discouraged from believing is possible.

Something thats become more and more common in our world is the pedestaling of certain teachers - such as Joe Dispenza or Esther Perel. Earlier in my healing journey, I also looked to these teachers for wisdom- now, since doing years of healing work and accessing my ability to discern what is true and what is not as well as what is pure light and what is false light- I feel it is important to let people know that these teachers are teaching false light/old paradigm ways of healing/relating. I don’t feel the need to dissect the how’s and why’s- but leave this as a reminder to use ones discernment when listening to the teachings from people we look up to- take a moment to think about what they are saying and ask “does this feel good in my body?” “Does this feel true” and “are there limiting beliefs in their message” and my favorite “is there a glass ceiling that they are not seeing or maybe don’t want to see beyond”. Because unfortunately many of these teachers are actually perpetuating a cycle- that no longer suits the higher frequency reality that we are moving into.

I don’t share this much- or I may not have shared at all online, but I work closely with light beings/alien races in my ceremonial space. We are working together to assist humanity in ushering in the new paradigm - the words ive been given (which words are not how they communicate- its is purely frequency) is “breaking through the glass ceiling of what we have thought is possible” - and one of the central focuses is on helping humans do the healing work in order to unite with their divine counterpart- which visually I see as the Merkaba in sacred geometry- which is the “vehicle of light” towards the higher dimensions. So if you are someone who is calling in your beloved, healing from heartbreak, or currently in union and wish to strengthen your ability to be whole unto yourself to fully experience union - I would love to help. The way I work is beautiful, expansive, and mind bogglingly fast and precise- and I truly love it so much- It would be an honor to assist you in welcoming Sacred Union.